Can’t you see?
Matthew 12:46-50 While He was still talking to the multitudes, behold, His mother and brothers stood outside, seeking to speak with Him. Then one said to Him, “Look, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside, seeking to speak with You.” But He answered and said to the one who told Him, “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?” And He stretched out His hand toward His disciples and said, “Here are My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of My Father in heaven is My brother and sister and mother.”
My heart hurts when I hear and experience these things. Of how the stories become too common to those who draw near to the Lord and their lives are changed. They desperately want to share with those closest to them the love of Christ. But many times a deaf ear is turned to Christ’s saving grace through the testimonies of those sharing it. It can be those closest to us that see the change in us; yet deny the possibility of the change in them. It hurts us deeply when those closest to us live for this world and not for Christ.
When Christ really grabs ahold of you to the point that nothing else matters, there is no turning back to the world. The world behind you wants to remind you of where you came from; the life of sin; the life before Christ. Even Christ as God living sinless in the flesh was unaccepted before those closet to Him. Luke 4:22 So all bore witness to Him, and marveled at the gracious words which proceeded out of His mouth. And they said, “Is this not Joseph’s son?” It hurts when those closest to us cannot forget the past, or worse yet cannot see the gospel we are trying to share with them. The stories I hear of those close to God seem to all have family members that either deny Christ, or simply have a facade for their faith. These stories all are extremely painful, and graduate level discipleship. Christ is asking us to keep our eyes on Him, even when those closest to us are falling away.
Christ even spoke directly to this struggle in Luke 4:24 Then He said, “Assuredly, I say to you, no prophet is accepted in his own country. We must continue to share our faith with those closest to us, but yet we must also understand we are not in control and cannot argue them into Christ. We are told we must put Christ before ANY thing else in our lives if we are to be His disciples. Luke 14:26 “If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple. Only He can do the work He must in their heart; and they must respond to that call. We are only called to be a living example and testimony to His saving grace, unending love, and hope He has placed within us.